Relationship: The new sexy

      I will try to be as modest and less vulgar as possible because I have been trying to avoid to write or talk about this particular issue, but no, I have to voice my opinion out to the world and I hope people adhere to what I am about to talk about. Women!!!!!! What is the new sexy? Is it having a Kim K's butt or Kylie Jenner's lips? Is it having a degree in your choice of course? Is it being an independent strong woman, be you black, white, mixed or whatever?
     Whenever I go on the internet, I do not get disappointed when it comes to seeing a video of women fighting each other either in groups or squads like they call it or individually, and people cheering the barbaric act. Sometimes, I wonder if these women actually think before they act, we tend to act out with slightest spark of ANGER, and the worse part, the people that are supposed to stop the fight, encourage it by hailing them and the most common one, take videos of it and upload it on social media. Tomorrow, you wonder why the male species do not have respect for some of us, you caused such disrespect and demeaning remarks from men especially those that lack proper upbringing. Has civilization not taught us that issues can be resolved amicably without fists throwing and hair pulling? It is sickening to see women resulting to violence over a man, or a pack of cigarettes, or who has a bigger butt.
    There is no greater achievement than empowering a fellow human be you a woman or a man. Generally, working with women can be tiring because of the tendency of her wanting to stand out, which is good if it is done without violence. Like a friend will say, there is nothing sexier than a woman that can sit her a** at home on a friday night. I am not saying we should live a boring life, or worst, wait on a man to provide our basic needs. I am sure no man wants to end up with a liability or an illiterate for a wife, get educated, start a business, start an organization,make a difference, do something worthwhile other than gossiping and fighting over unnecessary issues. I am a flawed woman, I have accepted my flaws, and I am working on being a better person. I am not doing all these because of a man or because I am in a competition with anyone, I am doing this because of ME, I want to look back at my life and say I DID THAT! Being an independent, intelligent, either book-wise or street-wise, strong woman is the new sexy.